Self-styled relationship adviser and actor, Adams Kehinde, popularly known as Lege Miami, is under heavy fire on social media after a video surfaced in which he made highly controversial remarks about married women, phone privacy, and fidelity.In the now-viral video posted to his Instagram on Tuesday, Lege declared that any married woman who uses a password on her phone is “a prostitute” and should leave her husband’s house immediately. He further argued that men have the exclusive right to privacy — and even infidelity — while women do not.
A woman who is married and uses a password on her phone is a prostitute. She should pack her load and leave the house,” Lege said unapologetically. Your husband can cheat, but as a woman, you don’t have the right to cheat. That’s how to be a good and responsible wife.
His statements, delivered with unwarranted confidence, have ignited furious reactions online, especially from women who called out the blatant double standards and misogyny in his so-called relationship advice.
Instagram user @theseunlawal blasted him, saying, Shut up, broad mi, it’s vice versa. Don’t give what you can’t take. Who gave men the license to cheat?
Another, @Oyedolamounique, pushed back: “Boda Lege, I disagree with you, sir. My kids will frustrate you without a password.”
Despite the backlash, some appeared to interpret the comments as satire, with others mocking Lege’s credibility as a relationship expert. “Egbon, ofo niyin oo. Na you dey matchmake, and na you dey scatter am,” one user wrote.
While some viewers laughed off the video as another wild rant from the internet’s most unfiltered “matchmaker,” others are calling for serious conversations around the normalization of toxic gender roles, especially by public figures posing as relationship experts.
So far, Lege Miami has remained unapologetic — further fanning the flames of the online uproar.
